Home

My goal this time home is to not neglect the blog like I have in the past.  I've realized coming home is as much about traveling as the other places we've visited.  It's exciting in different ways.  Even the most familiar aspects change over the course of a year.

Our first week at home, Elkhart, IN, was spent spent with family and getting prepared for our new puppy that would arrive the following Tuesday.  I won't bore you with talk of the dogs, but if you are a dog person, and want to hear about our adventures with Maci and Bella please feel free to check out my new blog, For The Love of The Dog.

Gradually, we have been able to see or plan to see several friends from this area, and we've already visited our favorite restaurant a couple of times.  Driving around the area reminds us you can go home again...  just don't expect it to stay the same.  People and places move on, grow, change, disappear.

We have grown and changed.  Thankfully, we haven't disappeared just yet.  One of the most poignant example of our growth and change is when we recently went to our storage garage to organize and make decisions about items that we don't really need to keep anymore.  A year ago, I looked at the stacks of stuff and could not imagine getting rid of any of it.  What if someone in our very small family wanted those pictures of relatives generations back.  You know...  the ones no one can remember their names.  What if one of the kids wanted that Mother's Day card made for me when he / she was in first grade.  All those mementos that were so dear when they were given, but what about now.  Still dear but the perspective is so different.  Many other thoughtful, loving cards and gifts have been given, and at the end of the day, the thoughts that went along with those cards and gifts are really what is meaningful.
How about the good china and other assorted glassware that is of little interest to my daughter or daughter-in-law?  Not their tastes.  Gone are the days when children gladly inherit dated items just because they belonged to an older family member.  That's OK, but now what?  Several boxes of fine china and everyday dishes that I'm not even interested in anymore.  I have changed, and my tastes have changed.

Most importantly, what I have learned after two years of traveling in the Whale full time is we need far less than ever to enjoy far more than ever.  We'll see how this part of the journey goes as we complete our stay in Elkhart and continue on.