Monday, March 24, 2014

Arizona

Arizona is amazing as are the friends we've been able to visit!  We first stopped in Sierra Vista to visit friends RF and Cathy who have a house in the desert.  Since many of their friends are RVer's, RJ has installed two full hook-ups in the back of the house.  We spent four days with them, but our exploring was limited because Jerry and I both had the upper respiratory bug while we were there.  In fact, I got to check out the  wall-in clinic in town - very quick and efficient.  Antibiotics and cough syrup, and I was good to go.  We did get to check out nearby Bisby - the copper mine and Lowell, Tombstone and Boothill.

Bisby Breakfast Club

Downtown Lowell frozen in the 50's

  
A local conversation piece 














Sadly, we had to leave Sierra Vista before we could completely enjoy all there was to see, but we will return there next year.

Our next stop was Arizona City.  Actually, we stayed due south of Arizona City in the desert with friends Sue and Gary and Sandy and Jim who we met while still at the RV park on Baffin Bay, TX.  Our first night there we were greeted with this sunset.
The second day we were in the desert, we spent five hours exploring with Sue and Gary on a John Deere Gator.  This is not the tour you get from the Interstate.  We were able to see areas of Native American Indian artifacts and areas only seen by those with off-road vehicles.  

The circle of life rock maze

Rock "stick figure" in the circle of life

Stone drawings left behind

Saguaro Cactus of Arizona

No problem... Gator can handle it

Desert beauty

Desert donkeys don't refuse a treat from Gary and Jerry












After five hours of exploring the desert, we returned to camp dusty, tired and knowing we just saw a beauty we had not experienced before.  We were able to spend time with our friends before leaving Sunday morning to head for Yuma to get to know that area for future possibilities.  We traveled to Yuma within a few hours and set up at the Escapees park outside of town.  The people here are welcoming and the sites are roomy.  We will be here for four days before heading north to San Jose and time with son Chris, daughter-in-law Marisa and grandsons Miles and Donovan.


Sunday, March 16, 2014

More about Texas...

One of the bad things about not posting for three months, and now being on the road again is what should I talk about?  Our experiences in Texas or where we are now?  I do want to share a few of our experiences in Texas.  I could continue to go on and on about the friends we met at Sea Winds.  All very amazing people.  Among those are the Bynums.

While at Sea Winds, we were invited to the home of Henry and Joyce Bynum.  Henry is a big game hunter.  Joyce is a big game hunter's "widow" as Henry is gone many times out of the country to follow his sport.  The Bynums have been involved with oil wells for years so no shortage of funds there.  When we got to the house, I was struck at how unpretentious is was - a single story ranch that looked much bigger on the inside than the outside.  We were invited into the Henry's display room where there must have been at least a couple hundred exotic animals mounted.  I am not a fan of hunting animals for sport, but after listening to Henry describe what he does, I was impressed.

There are certain rules he must follow.  Each country has fees that hunters must pay.  Those fees are not small.  The kill must be an older male.  The fees are quite steep, but the money goes to support the people in the villages in the area where the kill was made.  The meat of the kill also goes to the people of the nearby villages.  The hunter, of course, is interested in the hide or the animal mounted.  I couldn't help myself.  I started adding up all the expenses for travel, equipment, guides, fees, mounting etc.  That's a lot of money!

I was also struck by how down to earth Henry and Joyce are.  They are both in their 70's, and he is still quite active as a big game hunter while Joyce holds down the fort at home.  They were both quite easy to talk to and enjoyed a good story or two.  Henry told us about a time he was with a group hunting in Africa.  He had to use the "outhouse" and proceeded to walk a ways from the Land Rover without his gun.  As he was relieving himself, a huge lioness slowly stood up in the deep grass around Henry.  He told us he'd never been so scared. He had no gun as he'd left it back at the Rover - only a knife.  He told us he was sure this was how he was going to die, but slowly reached for his knife and backed away from the lioness.  As he slowly, very slowly, backed up other lions stood up.  He made it back to the Rover without any of them charging and to this day Henry has no idea why he is still alive after that experience.

Below are some of the pictures of his displays....  Notice many of the mountings are done with the animal's mouth open showing huge teeth and jaws.

This is one of my favorite pictures.  There's elephant  soul in there.
I don't think the size of the animal is most frightening.  I think the size of the teeth and jaws are!
This is just one wing of his display room.


Henry calls this his swamp monkey.  That's as technical as he gets.
If you look closely at the swamp monkey above, you can see his eyes, nose and a bit of its mouth... and of course its teeth.  It looks to me that the monkey's face is on its backside.  The top knot of hair looks like a tail to me.



We saw a few wild pigs in the fields around the campground that looked like this.


Kitty, kitty...



This final picture is of an elephant's skull.  Henry doesn't have many skulls on site, but this was most interesting as a close-up shows the single bullet hole above the eye sockets that felled the elephant as it charged Henry directly.  The picture of the elephant's eye above is that same elephant...  and Henry said the lion story was the time he was most scared...





We spent about two hours with Henry and his wife, wandering the huge display room, sitting and listening to Henry's stories and sipping a glass of wine.  We left having acquired new friends and yet another very unique experience.

As I write this entry, we are traveling west through New Mexico.  Sadly, we can't stop or stay as we are due in Arizona at friends.  We hope to spend more time next year on our next lap around the U.S.  It seemed like it took forever to get out of Texas.  We were able to see one area of the state with mountains, and as we headed toward Las Cruces, NM, we again experienced the winds we've come to know in Texas and New Mexico.  Sixty mph wind gusts caused us to tuck in the slides and hunker down in a Walmart parking lot.  I do want to say how much we appreciate most Walmarts welcoming overnight RVer's.  When we are just stopping for the night, it makes sense to park in a parking lot to dry camp.  We provisioned this a.m. are are on our way.

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Time to Say Goodby... Time to Journey On...

Over the last two months, it's been my choice not to make entry in our blog.  I've missed writing, but I had some healing to do, and I did not want that to be the central theme of this blog.  It's time to get back in touch.  Gradually, I'd like to share our experiences over the last two months and those we anticipate having as we continue our travels.

As year two of our adventures in the Whale gets underway, it's time to say good-by to Sea Winds, South Texas and all the incredible friends we have made in the last three months.  When we first came to Riviera, TX it was with the intent of regrouping and healing.  I planned to walk long walks alone, work on my courses for Ball State, and contemplate the life changing events of the fall of 2013.  It's hard to put into words what really happened.  We were immediately drawn into the camaraderie of the community at Sea Winds RV Park.  These are Winter Texans - some returning to Sea Winds year after year from all over the U.S.  As a whole, this winter community is quite possibly the most active group of people we have ever been around.  Jerry and I are not joiners.  We've spent our professional lives socializing with a very small group of close friends and family.  We enjoy the time with just the two of us, but we decided once at Sea Winds to explore the possibilities and found ourselves participating in morning coffees, game nights, and Saturday breakfasts as well as fishing and some volunteer work.  The more we got involved, the more we enjoyed the company of a wide range of new friends who would all like us to visit soon.  Oklahoma, Maine, Utah, Minnesota and Canada are just a few of the places our new friends are from.  We could spend a lifetime visiting and probably will.

It will be bittersweet to leave here...  Sad to leave dear friends but excited to start our travels again.  Maybe it's not so hard to described what's happened here.   We realized the importance of each day being lived to capacity, and the precious laughter that comes with good friends who enjoy each other's company without judgement.  Long walks, "field trips" to explore the area and its history, and many projects have all helped to push away those demons that often stalk a person who has faced their own mortality.  How is it possible to be consumed by what could have been when a person is having so much fun?  I am deeply grateful to Steve and Fran, who told us about Sea Wind last fall when we met them at the Elkhart Campground.  I'm a bit amazed when I think of the chain of events that led us here.  Chance?  I don't believe so.

I look forward to sharing some of our experiences in south Texas and Mexico very soon.